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Blake_T wrote:Mark,
your post gives me the impression you just like being contrarian with me considering this is basically saying "newer players shouldn't overly nitpick the details," which is what you end up also posting whenever I post something in great detail
Basically, it's the equivalent of guys who ask that pretty girl out, she says yes, and then they have no f'n clue what to do after that. When they're a bit more "seasoned" (prepared and confident), asking that girl out works out a lot better if she says yes, since you know how to treat her, where to take her, what to say, etc.
Mark Ellis wrote:I am an uneducated, old school traditionalist. (...)
I started with none of these things and had school age coaches who saw no future in me. They had realistic expectations for me. When I started Disc Golf my skill set was limited and I showed little promise. My development as a player came only because I rejected realistic expectations.
So yeah, I asked the pretty girl out. I wasn't sure what to do when she said yes. But I figured it out.
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Wyno wrote:Mark Ellis wrote:I am an uneducated, old school traditionalist. (...)
I started with none of these things and had school age coaches who saw no future in me. They had realistic expectations for me. When I started Disc Golf my skill set was limited and I showed little promise. My development as a player came only because I rejected realistic expectations.
So yeah, I asked the pretty girl out. I wasn't sure what to do when she said yes. But I figured it out.
Mark, first let me say I'm all for contrariansbut there is an irony here and my inner contrarian forces me to point it out: Your school teachers were "old school traditionalists" as well! After all, the traditional view is to put too much emphasis on natural talent and too little on willpower, motivation and practice. A more "New wave" kind of view could be: If you are willing to invest at least 10 000 hours of practice (of your own free will) you can become great in most anything.
Your own development as a player most probably came because you put in the hours, no?
Expecting to be brilliant without hours of practice, now that is unrealistic! And it will often lead to disappointment and loss of motivation.
To stretch that rapidly disintegrating metaphor even further: (The problem with unrealistic expectations is) You date the girl, it doesn't work out the way you expected, and you don't invite any more girls out 'cause you think "I've tried and failed, this is not for me"
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Frank Delicious wrote:and now we know the secret to your power. You are more machine than bear!
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